SPLF2025: Full Schedule

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2:15pm CDT

Outside of the Lines: BDSM and the Quest for Gender Identity

Friday March 21, 2025 2:15pm - 3:45pm CDT

Welcome to a journey from the crossroads of self-discovery. In this workshop, we explore how BDSM dynamics challenge emotional, spiritual, and physical limits, offering profound insights into our core selves. We delve into how BDSM practices provide a language to express gender identities beyond the binary, illuminating personal narratives and reflective insights that highlight BDSM's transformative power in understanding and expressing Gender-Diverse identities.

Speakers

Mita Beach

Mxster Mita (they/them) is a multi-ethnic, non-binary Leather Fairy who merges SM, sexuality, and spirituality. As a radically queer anarchist, they oppose heteronormativity, blending spirituality with BDSM to create a unique counter-culture. Mita leads House Anchor, co-produces Ritual... Read More →

Friday March 21, 2025 2:15pm - 3:45pm CDT
Longhorn 4

Education

4:00pm CDT

Violet Wand 101

Friday March 21, 2025 4:00pm - 5:30pm CDT

Longhorn 4

Want to learn about the violet wand? The history, and the current uses. This is the class for you, we will go over basic safety of the wand and the fun you can have. We will talk about consent and how to start a scene

Speakers

Sir Edgar and Slave raven

Sir Edgar and Raven are a M/s couple from Northern New Jersey They have been in a monogamous 24/7 M/s dynamic for over 7 years. They are the 2019 North East Master/slave title holders. “ “Sir Edgar began his journey in the BDSM lifestyle early 1990’s in Northern Jersey and NYC... Read More →

Friday March 21, 2025 4:00pm - 5:30pm CDT
Longhorn 4

Education

5:45pm CDT

Creative Sadism: Paths to Agony and Ecstasy

Friday March 21, 2025 5:45pm - 7:15pm CDT

Longhorn 4

It hurts so good! If you get hot watching and causing agony and discomfort, this class is for you. We’ll demonstrate many different ways to cause pain, how pain can enhance D/s, using pain for pleasure, hurting safely, marking or not, helping masochists take more, and aftercare. Come share your tips and tricks with the rest of us; experienced and novice players welcome, demos will be somewhat advanced and may include blood play.

Speakers

Marilyn & Rio

Marilyn and Rio are Northwest Master/slave 2023. Marilyn is a sadist with an intense blood lust and Rio is a service-oriented butch leatherdyke. Marilyn and Rio have judged, emceed, and tallied at numerous contests, and have presented at NWLC, SELF, SWLC, IMsLBB, LLC, the Exiles... Read More →

Friday March 21, 2025 5:45pm - 7:15pm CDT
Longhorn 4

Education